When I first use threesome app, there are many women looking for couple, and I saw Lily’s profile, I liked her, not serious like, just that kind of like that I wanted to sleep with her. I am sure all guys had such experience with girls. There are certain kinds of girl whom we see the first time and we want to sleep with them. Lily is that kind. I liked her profile and a few days later, I received an notification saying that we are matched. I see she barely spend time on this hookup app finding tinder for couples, so I sent her message right away after received the notification. She replied.
We talked for a while about women looking for couple. Mostly about greeting. Then I asked for her snapchat name and added her. I was pretty active in this. During those days, I often sent message to her and sometimes if she had time for conversation, we would text back and forth for hours. It was time to ask her out.
She agreed right away. We planned to have dinner together and have a one night dating at her house, since I live with my friends and she lives alone. The dinner went on pretty well. It never occurred to my mind that we should talk more about our sexual preferences and boundaries since we met on hookup apps where women looking for couple and have couples dating and we know nothing about each other.
After having dinner, I was taken to her apartment. We were both pretty straight-forward. Before we were in bed, we were already half naked. Suddenly, she became so forceful on me. She pushed me in bed and almost tear my pants off. I thought she likes the hard way, so I decided to go hard as well. I grabbed her in my arms and went for her lips. She slapped in my face and at the same time, she took of my pants. I sensed something wrong. Why did she slapped me in the face? It hurt me even though she didn’t have much strength. She was so aggressive. When she slapped ne another time in my butt, I realized that she was playing the dominant in BDSM. When she took out her handcuff out of the wardrobe, I was certain of it.
BDSM is definitely not what I signed up for. I am the least interested in it. I tried it before with another woman. The circumstance is similar to this one. One thing different is that I didn’t know I wasn’t a BDSM material, at least not as the soft one. I wanted to try it, but I failed. The same circumstance showed up again. To avoid further embarrassment, I nicely stopped it. As much as I hate being the buzz-killer, I have to. We should have talked about it beforehand.