I am always asked by the numerous swingers on couples dating apps, tinder for threesomes as well as tinder for couples: what exactly makes a good threesome? That's actually pretty tough question to answer, because threesome has total different meanings for everyone, since everyone, even every swingers who are living a swinging lifestyle, differs in a unique way. So there can't be definite rules or answers to every kind of questions.
However, believe or not, because of the particularities that three way lifestyle has, which is similar to kinky dating, bisexual dating and polyamorous dating, the experts have concluded a few similarities that the three way lifestyle has, which, of course, helped threewayhub.com, one of the most famous threesome dating website to compile several rules when it comes to threesome dating. Let's take a look at it together.
Know what you want from it.
Like what I just mentioned, everyone differs in their own way, so do their purposes. Some might be looking for wife threesome, while others for wife sharing, but their ultimate goal is to have casual fun, or something more serious, like a polyamorous relationship. And what you need to do first is be open about it. I get it, hooking us is just like having a threesome, which is considered as taboo in a lot of countries. But in order to save your time and energy, it is of great importance to be straightforward about it. Because there are a tremendous amount of cases where the threesome relationship went down south because of the lack of communication at the initial stage.
Threesome is not just about breaking down the physical barrier.
Those who are looking for threesome are mostly trying to fulfill their sexual fantasy. But it is not just about sex. It is important to keep in mind that an intimate relationship is based on the compatibility of personality. Thus inviting your matches on the three way dating platforms for a dinner or a drink would be a great idea, let along you have no idea if he or she is a serial killer!
Set rules first.
Then you might ask: I am just looking for something casual, is it really necessary? I don't even set rules when I am in a serious and long term relationship! Well, then you have to know the difference between a three way relationship and an one on one relationship. It is extremely easy to make one of the involved party jealous, which will be a serious problem in the relationship. So rules such as "it is not allowed to go on a date with one party without the admission of each party" will get the relationship a long way.
Make yourself comfortable.
It is true that there are a lot of rules that you need to follow to plan a great threesome. But it is also of equal importance to listen to your heart and make yourself comfortable.