Hookup a woman you are interested in

In my experience, it is usually better let women to break the silence, especially on threesome dating sites. In most cases, many people go to clubs or bars in the evening, would like to have sex and want to hook up with someone. Suppose you and your boyfriend in a bar where is a woman that you are interested in. As a lady in the couple, you'd better take the initiative to approach the woman and ask if she is willing to join your bedroom.  After talking a few words, if you feel that there is a chemical reaction, you can say: "I think you are very attractive. Do you want to have a three way with us?